going out to dinner

okay so first i want to say that it wasn't as bad as i thought...but i was concerned with the idea between two single friends going out and a date. So my ex didn't shower very often so let just say that i decided that i wouldn't go back out with this person if they didn't look clean..and sure enough he showed up with the same clothes that he worked over night in and then he mowed grass all day so there was grass all over his clothes...so that solves that. So two friends that is all that will ever be... okay so on with the night. We(he) talked about work and his family which is ok but he did do most of the talking which is ok but here is the problem. I want to be with someone that i can talk to who will understand what i am saying. I need someone that i can have an intellegent conversation not that he isn't smart but it is just the kind of smarts i am looking for. i had a good time but i am glad that it is over. it was akward because we flirt and stuff and now i know this isn't going to go anyway now. I have to make sure that this is the end of it because i don't want to hurt anyone. I don't want to hurt ppl